OK I am just venting. I know I sound stupid and unreasonable so please bear with me. As you know my Husband will not be home for Christmas. I have already accepted that. In some ways I was glad he would be alone as I thought this might light a fire under his arse to get things moving. So my MIL mentions to me a couple of weeks ago that it is too bad H will be all alone for Christmas but in some ways it might be good as he may miss his family. Little did I know until today that she has invited him to spend Christmas with her and her family. And he is going. He told me this morning that he should see her as he hasn't paid her a visit since February. I called her today and asked her what the big secret was, and all she did was Hum and Hah. I did not have an attitude, I was not rude. I just said thank you and hung up.
So now I am mad. This woman has lied and lied and meddled non stop in my marriage. She has NEVER said a bad word to my Husband about his actions towards me and the kids. She always says that "my Mijo needs to be happy". (Mijo means son). I rarely talk to her anymore and feel very betrayed by the family so I avoid her like the plague. I can not do anything or say anything it is his Mother. I do not know how he can face his whole family and celebrate Christmas knowing that his wife and kids are alone, 3000 miles away. I personally would be too ashamed to face anyone. So that is my vent I have to go and do something productive or I will be sitting her stewing all day.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
