I am so glad your H is working with you. There was a time that these kind words from my STBXW would have been all I needed to hear. Cherish this (like you needed me to say that ). I was totally serious about the $$$$$ for the plane fare. Please let us help if we can.
Get yourself some rest. I mean you already make meals for an army at home - let alone 100 people at church!!!!! You are such a great person. The world needs more in it just like you!!!