BND, you always give me such good advice, so I will try to give you my 2 cents.
First of all, I don't think it's a bad thing. He may just be scared to fall into a boring routine. You guys have been separated for 2 years. It could be fun rediscovering each other again.
Remember when you were dating, how you loved to find out new info about each other. Well he might be looking at it like that. You have changed and so has he. He is rediscovering you, and he may love that. Keep a little mystery about yourself. Don't lay all your cards out on the table for him to see. Give him one at a time.
Your H has proclaimed that he wants you. You are heading in the right direction. You and he have come so far, you can do this!
