Just reading a little about your sitch. I am really glad you are sharing your positive story here. It's great to read about success!
As for Barbie's story, I agree, one thing that I have come to believe in my own sitch is that if there ever comes a time when I "let my guard down" or just stop working and begin coasting again, I am sure to face all this crap again.
To me, working for your marriage is one of the strongest signs of love we can offer our spouses and it's a lack of work, in whatever part of the R we slacked off on that usually is at the root of all the problems.
Please, take care, keep up the GREAT posts, good news and happy marriage.
