BND:

I am so very happy for you. Look forward and let's hope that it will be a new beginning for all of you.

My H returned home once. It was at Christmas time 5 years ago. I was sure my divorce was busted. Unfortunately, it didn't last BUT...

The reason I am telling you this is not to bring you down, but to tell you what I did wrong so maybe you won't make the same mistake.

When H had been home 6 days, I started to let my guard down. I was sure we were past OW, and all the crap of our separation. I needed some answers. And I asked. And it was a huge mistake. He was not out of his MLC at all. He resented my asking. He ran to OW who of course showered him with love and praise and didn't ask questions.

Would he have stayed? Would he have left anyway? I have no way of knowing. And everyone's situation is NOT the same.

But I wanted to share this with you because I want this to be a success story for you and your family. So don't ask a lot of questions. Not now, anyway.

Take care,

Barb