I am so glad you like the book, it really helped me ALOT!!! I do think the DBing and the lessons we are learning are things that we will refine over time.
It is hard to sometimes see our behavior as something that needs to change and not justify it...just accept that changes need to be made.
That was a huge stumbling block for me, not to look at the crap my H was doing and just work on myself...bleh!
We had a wonderful Thanksgiving, the whole family together and just having normalcy
Finally my H told the kids he is ready to be home and will be back soon, permanently. I haven't told them anything, just in case! So I was thrilled that he felt "safe" enough to really follow through with this move.
I am busy painting the house, we chose new colors together and will be redoing most of the rooms. I am really looking forward to changing the bedroom and making it new again.
My Husband was wonderful during his week at home and we spent alot of time just being together and enjoying one another.
I was able to surprise him and do some 180's in the bedroom, which he was pretty happy with. I am learning to just enjoy my time with him and stop being so afraid to let down my guard.
Thanks you for all of the wonderful posts on my thread, I so appreciate knowing how much support I have from you guys on the board.
Wouldn't it be wonderful to win the lottery and be able to afford to pay for everyone on this board to go on a cruise together.....sigh.....money changes everything!
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
