hi bnd WOW I THINK I remember you! you would not know me cause i hardly ever posted but got the bomb 2/05, been seperated since 9/05..anyway long story but somewhere around spring summer 05 i started reading the boards and did pretty often until maybe awhile ago, cant remember (ha) anyway did your old name of "faith" in it?? If you are who I think you are i remember reading about your H's actions and the way he thought of you and spoke to you and his anger and its hard to belive they ever come out of that. My H has had the same anger and truthfully I know I am so far from perfecttt but I had been a good wife, all of this has been so shocking..I have seen my H so lost and confused..I am noticing the anger coming up more with him again and we had one conversation the other day that I just went away thinking if thats how he thinks of me, its like what he has to belive to leave...anway enough about my sitch..the part i never read about your sitch if you are who I think you are is what turned it around what made him decide he wanted you and his family back, how did the whole thing turn around??