BND...Never posted to you before but I am glad to see that you and your H have finally made it. I know there is still work to do but it does look very promising. It is great to hear success stories like yours. It inspires me to keep going.
I wanted to read your thread while on MLC forum but I can't seem to find it. I would like to read up on your to travelled through this journey. Can you post a link to your thread on my thread (link below).
As for the cruise. I went on a Royal Caribbean cruise in the month of October and it was simply amazing. Being a non-swimmer, I was afraid but it was the most amazing experience I had. H and I were in a cable with a balcony which was great. At night, I would sit on the balcony in the dark still waters and read a book. It was my only cruise so I don't know how others are but the Royal Caribbean was amazing. You will love it for sure.
I have added you to my fav so that I can continue to follow your situation as it is inspiring.