He continues to keep making plans for the future and I still have zero expectations but make a point to be happy and sound encouraging.



WOW! That is exactly how I am feeling. My H has been "recommitted" for almost 2 months, but I am still nervous. He doesn't want to talk about what happened so I have unanswered questions that I keep to myself.

It sounds like you are able to talk to your H. You mentioned reading has helped......any particular books?

Matilda