Thank you for all of the responses to my questions.

I am enjoying this part much more then the nasty other parts but it is all still so new and in some ways it feels almost like dating again and being in a new relationship but with that comfortable feeling.

I am trying hard not to allow my thoughts to overtake my common sense and stay focused on the actual issues not the what ifs.

I have been reading a couple of books that have been helping me to stay on track.

My H has been very supportive especially int he case of my dysfunctional relationship with my Mother. He has been listening to me and that means more to me then anything.

For the years of his MLC I could not share anything with him as he either didn't care to hear it or want to hear it. So I am feeling that I am getting my best friend back as well as my lover.

He continues to keep making plans for the future and I still have zero expectations but make a point to be happy and sound encouraging.

At the end of the day I am glad I made the choice to stand for my marriage. The man that has returned to me is becoming the new and improved model..I like that!!

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.