Quote: I guess I am afraid in some ways that the novelty of being in this new relationship with my Husband of 20 years will wear off and he will leave again.
Hey BND snap for me too! H recomitted a few weeks ago, said our problems were behind us now. He's been loving, attentive and open. We've had one or two mis-understandings but we are both much more forgiving now. In fact, I lost my rag completely just after he recomitted but it's OK. I am still in the early stages of piecing, I do worry that this changed H will revert back to old h again....I suspect very much like how he felt about me when I started making changes he liked. So like he needed time I'm giving myself time. Putting the focus on me, what I want and like to do - back to GAL. I'm gonna mark up this thread in my aves as there seem to be a few of us who feel exactly th same - I hope this thread will become a good source of support while we all take these scarey piecing steps, to me it feels like a journey into the (almost) unknown... a new R, much better than any I've had before, including with H.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
