Alimari,

I have Passionate Marriage, but find it very difficult to read. GH and I have been on this board for about the same amount of time so I feel like I have a connection to him. He strongly reccommends this book as does Oldtimer, his mentor. I guess I am just plain stupid because I tell you, it is kind of over my head.

I do feel pretty good about myself, although I have put on some of the weight that I lost in the LBS diet. I am now working on that. This time last year I looked damn good (not to sound conceited), but my H had absolutely no interest (OW was more interesting). Now that I sort of have his attention I weigh 10 pounds more. For someone that is 5 foot tall, that is alot. Damn!!! Anyway I am working on this because I personally do not feel attractive if I do not like myself.

Thank you all for sticking with me (did I mention how much I love this board?)