Hey Mama! Just dropping by to let ya know that I'm keeping check with you.
I know it's a struggle, darling....but trust that someday soon you WILL get that reassurance that you are BETTER (duh) than OW. Right now, I still think it's hard for him to talk about, let alone admit. I still think he's dealing with a lot of guilt, and he needs to work through that. So, don't take it personally.
BUT...the issue of intimacy remains. Hmmmm, logistics is really tough. You seem to mention that you both spend a lot of time on weekends together, with kids. You also mentioned that your neighbor is a really good friend, who is also Married? How about you and neighbor make a pact to do babysitting for each other? Every Friday (or whatever night), you switch off to watch each other's kids. That way you get a "date" night with H. If you make it a sleepover....then WHAM....you got some action. At least it's a few times a month, right? I think it also takes the pressure off, oddly, b/c you're both already planning it, looking forward to it.....you can both take turns planning the date nights for each other, like a surprise.
Just a thought....maybe a new tradition with the new year?
