Quote: Remember, one of the DB premises is that you ask for what you want. WHAT you want, not HOW you want it. It's the expectations tied in with the hows that cause pain and dissatisfaction and prevent you from recognizing when you are actually getting what you want.
Good point.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'