What baffles me is how our sitchs are reversed, what if your H (like mine) wouldnt' be able to tell you he loves you but he would enjoy sex w/you, how would you feel? My H hasn't said ILY once, but has sex w/me, would you settle for that? Would you be willing to ask him how you both can work at finding romance and intimacy again? what if he'd agree?
I know the depression cloud had to lift before we had a semi-normal SL, took him about 4-5mts for him to initiate sex.
Regardless, it is good you do plan ahead, don't regret this year, because you prob at some point would've given anything to have this chance had you divorce last year, when our Ss are away we all just want that one chance to try again.
My prayers your way hon)))))))))))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
