What to expect...part two (OT, Betsey , need ya)

[BethJ]

I understand the feelings of rejection. Pre-bomb I NEVER initiated or even let on that I was interested. However, I think you MUST overcome your fear of rejection and, sorry to be graphic, but just hop on him while he is sleeping. DO SOMETHING! I have reverse-spooned my H with success where I take his hand and put it on my breast - he always wakes up within a few minutes and is good to go. I will take my own advice and try something tonight as I, too, am getting frustrated with him not seeming to want me. Sometimes there is really something else that keeps him so preoccupied, that sex is the last thing he thinks of (hard to believe, I know). In my case, he eats, sleeps and breathes poker. It's killing me. I wish us both luck tonight!