Cat and GH, Thanks so much for the input and advice. Will keep you posted on how it works out.
Quote: From where I sit, and having gone through a LONG period of wondering if my W wanted me at all (even her telling me she didn't), I can say is sucks to think your H just doesn't want you. Sadly, maybe he doesn't but more likely he does but there is still some barrier preventing him from just doing what he wants to do.
While my H was involved with OW he flat out told me that he wasn't attracted to me. That hurt alot and I cannot forget that he said it, even if he no longer feels that way or doesn't even remember saying it, that seems like a huge barrier for me.
Talking dirty...that is just not something we do/did. I am uncomfortable taling about sex at all. We are both kind of shy about it.
Maybe he is truly happy just being friends and anything else turns him off. If that is the case I'm afraid we are both headed for a very unfulfilling life; one of which I really have no interest in having.
