MamaBear,

Hadn't thought about it that way....hummm.

But, then my WAH-MLCer only admitted his A, once I had all of the evidence & confronted him with photos/information. Otherwise, I doubt he would have ever fessed up.

Still you will need to forgive him, within yourself.
AND, I know that does take time.

Big HUG

MariS

"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"

Become the change you want to see.....

Me - 37
WAH - 35
child - 2yrs
Separated - August '06
Married - 10yrs, Together 18
Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08