Ya know I really would like the opportunity to tell my H that I forgive him but...he has NEVER admitted to anything other than being friends with OW. All the times that he was out drinking or out late or even over night he always claimed to be with "just guys from work".

Maybe he needs to forgive himself first. He denies everything so by me telling him that I forgive him I think he would take it as me acting like I am better than him.