What to expect...part two (OT, Betsey , need ya)

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offering the other side of the coin, my H doesn not like to talk about how and what he likes, at all! he always says "I can't talk about that! I like what we do" and that's it, he is just too shy, he just doesnt' like to talk, I've tried to get him to talk about that. But still, it is sexy to talk about it, and I still do some yummy talk and he sounds a bit shocked (I never did talk before) but I like it

Just posted on running's thread about how I sicked myself thinking what she did that my H liked or if their SL was better than ours, he told me yesterday that it was a bit different than ours and that it was just sex w/her, that I shouldn't be comparing myself, he was frankly surprised I had all those fears in me, to him it is ancient history not a cherished memory like I feared... it was just sex, period.

I remember when we were dating, we were like rabbits , so it was just the novelty and lust w/the op; not that us, the Ws are not appealing!

It did take me months to get him interested.

Anyways, I'll try to not be too graphic, but in the beginning he'd just lay there (after kids were sleeping & we were alone) and do nothing. So I just started cuddling up to him, then caressed his chest, abs, then moved south..then get him up, slid down there & the rest is history. As time passed by he'd be more affectionate, caressed me more. I never EVER did that before, so maybe that helped.

Just ordered "How to Be a Great Lover: Girlfriend-to-Girlfriend" which members from the SSM board think is great, we'll see