Update, yesterday I was really expecting H to go out after work instead he came straight home (actually 45 min. earlier than usual).
We took the dog for a long walk then took the kids bowling. We really had a lot of fun. Then we went to the place that I work and had a few drinks and a bite to eat.
I thought there might be a little romance this morning but I awoke to find S5, our golden retriever, one cat and D9 all in the bed. Maybe later...