Does the return of his affection take time? Am I being unreasonable and impatient or should I talk to him about it? Or would talking to him about it make him uncomfortable and send him running?
I'm not the most assertive person in asking for affection. I found what helps is dumping all the ugly underware and buying red and black thongs with matching push up bras. Then I'll wear some low on the hip jeans and make sure my husband can see the thongs when I sit down. Wear a shirt that shows cleavage.
I find that by doing this, even after 20 years of marriage, my husband has a hard time not being "affectionate" (notice the pun!).
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
