What to expect...part two (OT, Betsey , need ya)

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I"m a dope, yes, you've told me before he never left, sorry :P

Does the return of his affection take time?

oh yeah. For me, it rekindle the love I had for him when he was away, for him, his love for me wained as he was otherwise distracted, so for both of us we want to give so much...and receive as much. They have to now decide to be loving to us, because after so many years our love matures and it is a bit more work than the "summer of love" when we were love birds.

I used to pursue my H too much, I had to calm down, I;d even resent if we didn't ML every night and morn he was home (he's only home fri-sun due to work training). It was too much pressure, and it was hard but I've back off so I can let him take innitiative, and he does, he is tired from all week so when we dont ML I'm not upset anymore.

I also want us to have a roaring fire again, but for now it is baby steps back to find romance again.