Quote: I know this sucks – but a big part of detachment (IMHO) is accept your reality and live as though it will not change. You are married, but living alone, Christmas will be you and D5 – no W because she choose that. Too many try to deal with their MLC’er by living as if they will be back – IMHO, big mistake – live as if it’s over (if you are married – no I don’t think you are free, more like married to someone in a comma) and this is YOUR new life.
The really odd thin gis that when you DO get to this point, and you really are living for yourself, that's often what it takes for the WAS to start to come out of the fog - the prospect of really losing you forever. The 'fixed you'.
