I am going to post a brief history for people that they don't have to go through all the old threads. And to state where I think I am in the process, but perhaps I'm wrong.
I thought W had started replay about one year ago. She spend money since more than 1.5 years as if there is no tomorrow. About 1.5 years ago she also contacted old highschool sweetheart.
Since Oct 2005 she started working out like crazy and basically stopped eating.
Also Nov 2005 she went to a concert w/SS15 b/c nobody else she knew wanted to go. At that point she changed her taste in music competely. Then she was online all the time. She also said 'we should separate'. When I asked her the next day she just said she didn't mean it this way. The same exact thing happened again middle of Dec.
Met Om online and than in person Jan 06. Dropped bomb in Feb 06 and I moved out. She dated in March 06 for a couple of weeks (had signed up for match.com). Went out w/newer, younger girlfriends. Not that often though.
She met Om again in Mar, April, and then May every time for a long weekend. So she saw him a total of 5 weekends.
In June she 'wanted to work on the M' but after we moved back together in July, she learned that Om almost died. He was very sick, one of the reasons she realized that they wouldn't have a future (even she could see that!).
That's when she started going out all the time, not calling even if she came home after midnight. Going dancing, to concerts.....While at the same time she talked to Om on the phone at least 2 or 3 times a day. Was online again w/Om and started flirting w/ what I believe is now 2nd Om.
In Oct she asked me again to move out.
For half a year she had this dream to open a B&B w/Om. But she realized that after all this money spend that probably is not going to work out. I haven't heard anything about this dream in a couple of months.
