wow, you unearthed my thread, :lol I'm flying low for now, I'm mighty sure my H has been on this board, he mentioned if i'd seen his black diary, so for a while I changed my name.
We are doing well thank heaven, with a bump here and there, still not #1 priority yet due to his new training/job, but he is more loving towards me.
I hope you able to talk to your W when D isnt' around, I guess one way or the other she might hit the roof, but I think you made the right desicion not to agree to aline of credit, hang in there pal.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.