Hey EM, sorry things are not going good for now, I was wondering how you were doing.
I wouldnt' sign up for any line of credit, she'll have to cut back on expenses and see her own way out. I know you are scared this will distance you, but the way she's been acting all along doesn't show she'll act any better with you.
You won't loose the kids, I know it wont be same, but getting into debt so she can pay some bills and then burst the rest on heaven knows what doesnt' seem to be a good a good idea to me.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.