I haven't taken the time to come and look for you. But I found you!
I am catching up on your thread. I just wanted you to know that much of what you have said in the past made perfect sense and has worked.
Things are going well between H and I. No movement as far as reconciling but we are not fighting. WHo knows.
You have a lot to offer with your sitch. I can understand that you feel this board bring you down. I know there are times when I tell myself not to come but in the end I always do. I learn something about myself and others every day. Some of it is priceless.
I am thinking of you and your family. You are in my prayers.