Not rushing it is good advice. I am a bit project oriented and will by my nature will work hard on a project and then move on and forget about it. That is not a good metaphore for working on improving a marraige and its a mistake I have made in the past.
Get it to a comfortable level and direct my energy back to work.
A major change / chalange for me is to be able to live a balanced life. Juggleing time for me spiritual/physical , time for my wife, the kids.
It seems that I can do great in a couple of the areas but will neglect the others. I think if there were one skill that would improve my life the most it would be this ability to maintain a heathly balance is all of these area's.
Good area for me to workon in myself
I apreciate your input JJ, Have a wonderfull weekend.