"Things are nice enough between us that its hard to do the work to move us even closer. Its so easy to just leave it alone. We will never be like were were as newly weds and thats ok. But I do want and need to be closer..."
Although it may "feel" that you are doing "nothing", I think that what you are doing IS actually bringing you closer, one step at a time.
DON'T SCREW IT UP BY TRYING TO RUSH IT!!
"its amazing how a few minutes shared can give me the warm fuzzies all day."
Remember this. Trying to figure out what day, and which hours for the "us" time can be damn near impossible. Take the moments, and make them count
JJ
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