I think that as Guys its easy for us to not realise all of what our wives do around the house and with the kids. It could be that if we feel we are doing everything around the house we are still only approaching the halfway point on the equlity scale.
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work By John Gottman, Nan Silver Book Link
This is a really Good Book. In this book he talks about the importance of sharing house work.
