It doesn't mean setting aside major chunks of time, or major excursions and outings anywhere. It can be very simple stuff.
For example, something that really means a lot to my wife is helping her cook dinner, or do dishes. I don't really have to actually do a lot, it's just a matter of being in the kitchen with her. Either in times of silence, or just idle chit-chat.
Simple.
Another is doing yardwork. We don't have to even be in the same area of the yard, or working on the same project. Just sharing a common goal, passing by each other, taking a break together.
Again, very simple.
Have any ideas of things that YOU can do?!
JJ
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