Great advice you've gotten. I haven't really thought re-reading DR as my marriage is being pieced back together, I might take it with me on vacation next week.
Also, you suggested Gary Chapmans' Five Love Languages.... great book. I'm still alittle perplexed as to what makes my husband happy. I'm not sure what his love language is. Mine is time.... I need to know that I'm worth his time and attention, but of course words of affirmation is very important to me too.
Good luck.... I haven't told H about this site either, I'm not sure what his reaction will be.
