I realized I had been wronge even as I was creating my post. It has been a wirlwind for me the last few months. Having two homes to care for and doing lots of remodleing to boot. I have a demanding Job and two great kids..... Anyway....
I have been into action mode and have not done much thinking and planing for a few of months about my marriage.
Time to change strides...
Kaw thanks for chimeing in and the recomendation to reread the DR book from a new perspective is a great thought.
