Quote: One of the comments H made the other night was "You don't honestly feel like you're still in love with me, do you? Aren't you just scared of being alone?"
Nikki- this is what I meant about the agreement game. I have felt like my H has done things he was sure would push me away and make me make the hard decisions so he didn't have to. Don't let your H try to convince you that you feel differently than you do to justify his actions/feelings. My H said to me when we 1st started having problems: 'I'm not happy, don't tell me you are.'
I'm going to read the rest of your post to see if I can address anything else. Just wanted to clear this up before I forgot. Julie