Isn't it funny, that they ask us that? Of course we don't want to be alone... and neither do they. They move to OW before they leave us! obviously, they are afraid of being alone!! can you say projecting? that is certainly MLC. I agree with Holly's respone, that's a great response. My goal, (while I am very afraid of being alone), is not to tell H, but, to show him that I can do things on my own. I do tell him I miss him, but, not that I'm scared. So, while it scares the hell out of me, I can muddle through. At the same time, I do appreciate what he does to make my life even a little easier, while I try to get better at muddling. Give them credit, where credit is due. .. even if they help us subconsciously, if it's good, thank them, and apprecaite it.
