Say something ambigous, like, "You could be right". He will believe what he wants to believe, and you agreeing with him will eventually work for you. Let him wonder. One of the points men worry about in depression, is Am I being loved enough? Believe it or not he wants you to love him. He was fishing. Let the answer without any information work for you. "You could be right". Holly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.