I nearly forgot.. I have a DB specific question. One of the comments H made the other night was "You don't honestly feel like you're still in love with me, do you? Aren't you just scared of being alone?"

At the time I responded that I didn't know, but the more I thought about it these last few days, the answer is YES - I love him very dearly. I wish we were happier right now and not going through this, but I love him. I'm afraid of being alone, sure, but I'm a lot more afraid of losing a truly amazing man that I DO in fact love. Do I tell him?

I want to tell him I thought more about his question and the answer I've found in my heart, but I don't want to pressure him. What do you think?

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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