Nikki,
Great job. You stick to your guns! He should be ashamed of himself for continuing to push. It's pathetic, isn't it? I bet your old H would never have lowered himself to do that... he's almost begging on her behalf.

And congrats on the free coffee!! Sometimes something like that goes a long way for us to remember that we are worthy, doesn't it??

Today was my H B-day. He leaves on a vacation with OW tomorrow. (the one she mentioned in that cell call where she knew I could hear)... I managed to keep postitive this week, thinking maybe she just made it up. That is until I looked at his work calendar today, and saw that he'd scheduled all next week as vacation. I lost it when I saw that. Lots of tears, cookies and junk food later, I'm finally under control again. I swear, he's gone on more vacations with her in this past 2 years, than we went on for the 16 years before this all started. Well, on the bright side...it's to the beach again. More wrinkles for her already wrinkled face and body!! Maybe she'll gain a few more pounds too!! Me bitter towards OW?? Hell yeah! I say we're allowed that small token.

Have a good weekend. Stay strong.

Once