Nikki, I'm so glad you got the MC appointment, and found one who will have solution based therapy. Im sorry that your H is still hung up on OW. I know you are looking for good things, but please don't be too gullible. I was. There is a reason for the saying 'love is blind'. I was, so were many others. Your H shouldn't be spending time with OW, period, but, especially, knowing how it upsets you. He is choosing to go be with her, when he knows it upsets you. He is justifying behaviour that is inappropriate for a husband. You are absolutely normal to be bothered by his insistence on spending time out of work with her. You can try to work with him, but, do not, believe that you are wrong. You are not. You are being very generous in your even considering giving her leftovers!! I'd leave it out for a few days before giving it to her. Im still looking for the OW article, because it is sooo your H OW and my H OW!
