replying again before reading it all, so I don't forget!

I think what happened, although very frustrating for you not knowing where he was (that happened to me a couple times) resulted in a GOOD thing! Really, I mean, think about what he's done since then. He was clinging on to you in the bedroom that night, he called you and wanted to chat while at work, he went to lunch with a MALE friend, he canceled plans with OW. It sounds really good to me.

Maybe perhaps you getting sick to your stomach, really showed him how this is affecting you. I know it's not good DBing, but something must have happened.

Just continue to DB it. Continue to show him the real you, the you who is excercising her body and taking great care of it, the you who is having fun dancing by yourself.

In regards to Thanksgiving. I would put the pressure on him. What you said "I'm sorry your in such a hard predicament" paraphrased... was really good. I think staying with that would be good.

Maybe offer to save some leftovers for them?

I'll check back, my S2 is being a little bratty right now.


Last edited by Stilltryin_____I_MADE_IT__; 11/10/06 01:32 AM.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."