Wow That is awesome!!! I wish my H had been as responsive as yours, although mine was in a PA totally so maybe that's the difference.

You know, another idea is to just go out. There were a couple times that I had H babysit kids, and all I did was go shop or to a restaurant and sit at the bar and have a drink. You probably won't need to do that-leave before he gets home when he takes too long- but an option to use if necessary.

That would really confuse him! Might make him mad though, or jealous.

Well, I'm really glad to hear how things are going. My neighbors, whom I thought were perfectly fine, just put up their house for sale and getting a D. I'm like, WHAT????? Please let me give you this book. She's like, no no, I am totally done, I've done everything for 2 months., Ya, TWO months, I'm thinking, there are people on here doing this for 2 years, and their sitch is improving, it took me 6 months! They've been together since 19 years old, for 9 years married 5 with a 1 year old.

I'll probably put a post on here for them and see what anyone says. Made me really sad, and I wasn't even close to them at all.

well, Keep it up! Dancing is miracle pill!


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."