Nikki- I think it's a good thing that your H wants to go to IC as well as MC. As you shop around, be sure to find a C that is pro-marriage. It sounds like you are doing the right things, trying to be proactive before your R gets to the sitch some of us are in now. I wish I knew back then what I know now about the OW in my life. ANyway, definitely do the counseling. Earlier in a post you mentioned having a lot of fun w/ your H at an event that the EA didn't- keep looking for those opportunities. You look great and she doesn't. Good luck, have a great Tuesday. Julie
