Astimegoeson - thank you so much for your insights from a guy's perspective. I am really torn - part of me agrees that he wouldn't be telling me all this stuff if his intentions were bad, and the other part of me fears that he's just a step away from going too far. His friendship with her IS too close and he even recognizes that - heck he even seems to feel that it's "wrong" based on some of what he says - but at the same time he doesn't back off. He tried once and she came to him crying at work that she felt like she was losing her 'best friend' and they've been getting closer and closer ever since. I wonder if he sees it coming and is lying to me or to both of us. The other problem is the more insecure I get about it, the more I'm afraid he'll take it to the next level - sort of the "fine, if you think I did it, I might's well do it!" thing.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
