EA, being "friends" with OW, and Boundaries

[NikB]

Once - I'm so sorry you had to go through all that. It made me sick to my stomach thinking a man who once loved his wife could do that to her. It's just sickening! It's so weird how DBing for "normal" vs. someone in a possible MLC is different too - I'm having a tough time balancing those PLUS the boundary setting thing. I think the ideas for reservations with couples or tickets to events are GREAT, too. I know H is really uncomfortable when we're all out with some of our more established friends. AND it's a big 180 for me to plan stuff with friends instead of just with him, so that's a good point too.