EA, being "friends" with OW, and Boundaries

[NikB]

Thanks Julie! The closer we get to our dinner tonight the more upset my stomach gets, but I will do my very best to "act as if" and try to have fun. I found out there are more people than just H and I going so that will make it better too. It's much worse when it's just the 3 of us or when she comes over to our house. And I guess on the bright side, the upset tummy ought to help with my weight loss efforts (I hear the roomie is a really good cook, so not being hungry may be a good thing!).

Excellent point about journaling - I started one a week or so ago and set it aside. I need to get back to it. I'm so new to all this I hardly know where to start - reading the book, journaling, posting, setting aside the "me time" - plus going on with regular ol' day to day life. It's pretty overwhelming to find time for it all.