I have to admit that though I appreciate H's current efforts, it IS difficult to not feel that it's way too little, too late. I think that's where my feelings of impatience and entitlement come from. Though I am doing a pretty good job of keeping them at bay. Much bigger and more important things at stake here than my hurt pride.
Good luck with your re-evaluating. This process has a way of truly refining everything about us.
