You sound so strong. How did you get to this wonderful place? My H left 2 months ago and has OW. He says they are not sleeping together but wheter or not that's true or not they seem to have at least a emotional R. I am not in the dark whole I was 2 days ago so in some respects I am beginning to GAL. I am at least functioning without falling totally apart but I am so sad and sometimes and just can't seem to sleep. What has worked for you?