Aud,

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I am grateful for what I DO have. That is where my focus needs to be. I keep jumping ahead of myself and wanting to work on this R—to fix it and know that everything’s going to be the way I want it to be, but perhaps for now, it’s more important for me to just stay calm, be grateful and happy, and let everything else follow.




I struggle with this very same thing! I too tend to jump ahead of myself and try to fix my R, and I have this vision of where I want my R to be. Though my vision tends to be more perfect, I know that I'll be just a happy if I achieved half of what my vision is!

You are 100% right in focusing on YOU, staying clam, being grateful and happy. There will be days when we backslide on these goals, but we can always get back on track! It's good to hear that you made it OK from this weekend!

I also need to be grateful for having what I have which is a family under the same roof, and for still sharing our bed with my beautiful but confused W!


~Sol

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Single Dad, and luvin it!
~ Happiness is a state of mind ~