Quote: So you know what, I have to take back the reigns and make the decision to be in control of my future.
Great advice here. This is what I have been doing this week to my W and it has done wonders for my PMA eventhough I am pissing her off by doing this it has nothing to do with her anymore. She was the one that jumped ship. I am dragging the life raft behind if she wants to try and join our family again but I am not waiting or dwelling on that happening anymore.
What you wrote is great. AUD, take this advice and run with it. However, becareful not to be fooling yourself by just saying that you are going to accomplish this. You actually have to get out there and start doing.
Take care Girls, O
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."